Tania here:
Living as a human being, living in society we learn to think in boxes. We are not taught to think on our own - we are taught what society thinks. Making yourself free from what society thinks and starting to think on your own - you free yourself from boxes.

Free from boxes, things just are...  No explanation is needed!  Putting the term unconditional before the word Love, is like putting it into another box...  The new age movement is totally into light and unconditional love. It is just another way of practicing a religion...

Freeing yourself from boxes we look again at the world like a little child full of awe and wonder. A kid doesn't ask himself how does it work, is it good, is it bad...  It just experiences...  It cries when it doesn't feel good, it laughs when it likes things...  When it becomes conditioned to the way the parents and society think - it starts to fear things, judge things...  A baby just is...

Light is, Dark is, Love is...  As soon as we put bad, good, unconditional or whatever before a state of being we simply judge...

This is what I think or feel about this all...

I experienced the love and light period too...  I was totally into it. Judging about the 'other side' was happening on a daily basis. Nothing wrong with it. I didn't see it. It was just a learning experience.

I was so caught up into the term unconditional that I just let everyone walk over me. I totally lost myself. Because I am more than the term light, unconditional... alone. I am everything!  I was putting myself into a box. I am Light - I was cutting myself off from who I really Am...

I am in a process right now where I am learning to stop the action and trust the universe more...  I am learning to be, instead of doing all the fighting, all the boxes work...  Got a big bang on my head from my inner voice...  Why are you still busy playing the missionary? Trying to 'baptise' people...  They have also the right to choose which life they want. I was sooooo caught up into the term Oneness that I just dragged people into it, instead of being/feeling oneness inside and let the world go on like it goes...  What I feel inside I cannot put into words, or teach it to others...  I just feel it inside and let it come out and let people make their own choice if they want to be part of it or not...

I had difficulties to let people go, just because I feel them as another part of myself, I had difficulties to 'leave them behind'. Another illusion to break...  You cannot leave them behind because they are already you, they are what I am...  They play their own part in this big grand theater performance...

That is cool isn't it?!

With Love Tania